What Your Non-Verbals are Saying to Your Prospects

In his book Emotional Intelligence 2.0, Dr. Travis Blackberry outlines some of the most common body language tendencies and what they communicate to your audience.Slouching: a sign of disrespect.Exaggerated gestures: stretching the truth.Turning yourself away from others: uncomfortable and distrustful of the person speaking.Crossed arms/crossed legs: not open to what the other person is saying.Exaggerated nodding: feeling anxiety about approval.Fixing your hair: anxious, self-conscious, and distracted.Avoiding eye contact: hiding something or lack confidence.Sustained eye contact: communicates confidence, leadership, strength, and intelligence.Eye contact that’s too intense: perceived as aggressive, or an attempt to dominate.Getting too close (nearer than 18 inches): low self-awareness and understanding of personal space.Since more than 50% of the information in a conversation is passed nonverbally, great communicators make sure to use it to their advantage.